火花心臓。

Here I love you.
In the dark pines the wind disentangles itself.
The moon glows like phosphorous on the vagrant waters.
Days, all one kind, go chasing each other.
  
The snow unfurls in dancing figures.
A silver gull slips down from the west.
Sometimes a sail. High, high stars.
  
Oh the black cross of a ship.
Alone.
Sometimes I get up early and even my soul is wet.
Far away the sea sounds and resounds.
This is a port.
Here I love you.

精神分析之类的学派一直觉得认知行为太过简单粗暴不能真正解决问题根源。学精分的老师问一位认知行为治疗的大师,如果来访者一直强迫数电线杆,你用认知行为的方法让他不去数电线杆,结果他开始数树,数台阶怎么办?

认知行为治疗师说,那我就让他不再数树,不再数台阶,也许他又开始强迫关煤气关门……但是最后他会学会如何用我教会他的方法自己处理这些生活中的症状。这才是我的治疗结束那一天。

治疗是合作去以来访者自身为研究对象的科研过程。他会学会一整套的科研方法,成为自己的认知行为治疗师。

老师分享说,对啊。有些根源的问题是不能被解决的。

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